1、You Always Go Dutch

你們約會總是AA制

2、 He's Always on the Phone

他總是手機不離手

3、He Can't Handle an Intellectual Conversation

他聊不了有深度的話題

4、He Never Asks About Your Day

他從不關心你這天干了什么

5、He's Too Busy to Help You With Anything

他總是以很忙為借口，從不幫你做事

6、He Doesn't Know How to Console You（When he sees you cry, he does nothing. When you're upset, he looksat you like you're crazy) .

他從不安慰你，當你難過的時候，反而覺得是你無事生非。

7. You Never Get Anything You Want （When you go to a restaurant, your boyfriend orders for you. When thetwo of you are watching TV together, you're always viewing his favorite show).?

你總是得不到你想要的 （你們一起出去吃飯，總是點他喜歡的菜；你們一起看電視，總是看他喜歡的節目）。

8. He Pressures You （When he wants to do something, he wants to do it now. He doesn'tcare about your concerns or reactions to the situation).

他總是強迫你 （他想干什么就干什么，從不關心你的感受）。

9. He Only Thinks About Himself (Everything that comesout of your boyfriend's mouth begins with "I". He's only worriedabout his own well-being).?

他只考慮他自己 (他總是談論自己，只關心自己好不好)。

10. He Brings Up Old Mistakes?

他總是提起你曾經反的錯誤。

11. You Don't Feel Appreciated?

你總是得不到贊美。

12、He Forgets the Important Things

他總是忘了重要的事情（例如生日、紀念日……）

13. He's Secretive （You never know whetherhe's coming or going. Your boyfriend could be doing anything when he's not withyou and you would have no way of knowing).

你從不知道他的行蹤。

14、He Talks to Other Women (He flirts with other womenright in front of you. He still mentions his ex. He even compliments otherwomen's appearances in your presence).?

他談論別的女人（你在你面前和別人調情；仍然提及他的前女友；甚至稱贊別的女人的長相）。

15. He's Not Supportive （Your boyfriend laughs atyour dreams and goals).

他不支持你的夢想、事業。

16. He Belittles You

他不尊重你。

17, You're Not His No. 1 Priority (He'd rather spend timewith his friends than have an occasional date night with you -- at least that'show he makes you feel).

他不把你放在第一位 （他的朋友永遠比你重要）。

18. He Doesn't Like Your Friends

他不喜歡你的朋友

19. He's Disrespectful to Your Family

他對你的家人不尊重。

20. He Cheats on You

他有外遇。